Take it in your Stride

Have you felt like you've being used?

I bet everybody in their lives have experienced that before.

The feel of having realised that you are being used would definitely screw your world up.

Let’s not just look in our love life, Look at perhaps Friends or cliques at school.

There are definitely big cliques at school that you are with and this is where all the strong
personalities will definitely stand out from the weak personalities or with the strong personalities just can’t be bothered to stand out.

So when does the feeling of being used usually occurs?

It’s when you think sometimes you did everything for that cliques but then in the end it was
not appreciated or perhaps not being recognised or furthermore to make things worse you are being criticised for that action of yours.

Not only that, you will realise there’s definitely some new friends joining the big cliques which you are previously in. They tend to treat the later better or divert their attentions to the later since they(new friends) have stronger personalities(which is perhaps louder, noisier, cooler and etc).

You will just feel like you are not needed anymore and after all that you have done, it’s just worth nothing in their eyes or does not matter anything.

What you can do

Perhaps you could just back out and try to spend more time with friends that you can rely upon which are worth spending your time with(which i already knew who they are in my life.) Or continue to be with the cliques in that uncomfortable zone of yours and continue being taken advantage of or lastly try to stand out from the rest and portray the personality that you are not.

I had my say, I have already chosen my path.
Now it’s up to you to choose the path you want..

Yours Truly,
Muhammad Fazli Bin Mohd Jamil

Quote of the day
~ Everybody loves getting attention, but when there’s nothing left for you why continue?

Sometimes in YOUR life, you need to be selfish for your own needs because
that’s How Life Is~