Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Read this!!! it won't take that long..I promise.. :D

Hola guys, due to overwhelming responses and tags i receive from the post about girls. I’m glad i’m able to get this response because this is how you learn you need two different views and from the difference you can actually learn it. So today i will be talking about love. I hope i can get the same response again or even better.

What is love?

The word love means different things to different people. It is sacred to some and meaningless to others. Yet everyone has an inner response to love in one way or another. Some of us use love to refer to sexual desire while others use it to describe feelings of affection and romance.

How do you feel about love? What does love mean to you?

Consider for a moment how you usually use the word. There are different types of love, yes i know. But think for a moment which type of love you referring when you used the word “LOVE”.

There are a lot of reasons why we are not open to love. There are a lot of reasons that and explanation to that answer. But WHAT PREVENT US TO LOVE?

IT is because of this word “FEAR”. Fear is the word preventing us to love. So what is fear? Fear begins as a thought, anticipating the possibility of an unwanted happening of some kind. So these are the few fears of love.

- Fear of being abused
- Fear of being hurt
- Fear of being used
- Fear of failure
- Fear of rejection
- Fear of commitment

These are just few fears that we have to prevent us from loving. So recognise those fears of yours and DO something to overcome it so you can be more open to love. Love is a part of us, it’s within us, All human can love, its either they choose it or not. Love is already a life to us. We are born with the full capacity of love. It’s up to individual how they want to love and to be loved.

I give you an example, Love is like a rainbow. Rainbow comprises of different colours. So does love comprises different factors? Yes, It is. There are a lot of factors that made love. There are different factors but i don’t wish to list them all. Responsibility, care and concern are just some few factors.

Love has to be equal to both parties. You can’t love more than another party, this will lead the party itself feel like they are not loved. I know it’s difficult to love equally but always remember that its important to love equally as much you can because if not it leads to conflicts and arguments. Another example from me is, heard a saying that ‘you need two hands to clap’? Yes it does apply to love. In love you need two hands which is two parties. In love, you need to clap on a same time and the same amount of force needed to achieve a clap which is not one sided.

So What is love?

We hear about it. We speak about it. But what does it mean? Love is one of the most misunderstood words in the dictionary but do we really know what it really means? Love is not just a word. It is an essence. It is a vibration. It is a power. It is life itself.



Quote of the day
~Love is in your heart not to stay, but to be shared.~

Yours truly,
Muhammad Fazli bin Mohd Jamil

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